These are predators in my opinion who don’t give you enough information to make a decision on whether to date them or not.Or worst, they make you think that they want what you want and lead you on for so long it becomes more and more difficult to walk away.In the time I’ve been single, about 3 years, I’ve managed to secure a fairly decent job, start and manage my own website and propel what was once a little blog into a business venture.
In fact, misery loves company but as soon as one person is no longer miserable they leave.
When you are happy, fulfilled and excited about life you’ll realize being alone and happy is better than being together and miserable.
There is a saying, “You can do bad all by yourself,” meaning you don’t need a partner in failure.
If you are going nowhere, unhappy and desperate another person will not be the cure.
Outside of being downright miserable, here are a few additional signs your time is being wasted.
You’re in no better a place today than you were when you started the courtship.
What have you done in the time since you’ve met to now? Has life as you know it gone from bad to worse, good to bad or stayed the same? Not to say that they are bad people but they are selfish people only interested in needs.
They require excuses just to be chalked up to decent human beings.
They engage in behavior that always needs an explanation.
Whoever you date, ask yourself, and answer honestly.
Just because a guy says he’s “looking to settle down,” doesn’t mean he isn’t using that line to gut-hook the foolish.