Because I hadn’t really determined at that point whether or not I could actually be in a relationship with a trans woman.
I said to myself, “well this is just a date, it’s not like we’re getting married or anything,” and I decided what the hell, I’ll just go ahead and message her and see how it goes. I remember the first time we went out in public at an IHOP, I believe it was.
It would be very encouraging, and I think it would help reduce the stigma.
It’s always the assumption that their sexuality is called into question, which I think is just ridiculous.
I’m a good-looking guy, so I know my looks are not the problem.
Because for men, looks are a big part of attraction. However, for the most part, we value things differently. I spent years doing live theater; starring in roles like Dorothy, Ms. I know one thing for sure, when you’re standing in the spotlight, you are blind to your audience.
A woman can recognize a man is good looking physically and has a list of impressive credentials AND STILL NOT BE ATTRACTED TO HIM. This works perfectly when they’ve actually paid to see the spectacle of you singing and dancing. What’s bothering me now is that he’s been acting differently towards me ever since. Dear Lauren, My ex-girlfriend said that she did not love me nor was she attracted to me. She made the first move on our first date, she would always initiate PDA's: kissing, touching, even arousing me in cabs, restaurants, the park...
We’re a little selective in who we discuss it with. My sympathy goes out towards trans women who don’t pass. I think it would have made it a lot harder dealing with the stigma that I mentioned before, and I probably would have seen more of it.
It just would have been a lot more difficult, especially with my family and introducing you to them, considering they don’t know you’re trans yet. I think people can wrap their heads around it a lot more if the person is passing, and it’s unfortunate that that’s the case.
.” So I acknowledged the possibility of a sexual attraction, but I’d never honestly considered whether or not I could actually be in a romantic relationship with a trans woman before. ” *laughs* I thought you were a little weird, but in a good way.
It wasn’t like I had ruled it out, it was just something I hadn’t sat down and thought about. And when I mean weird, I mean quirky and nerdy, stuff like that, and I thought those were very endearing qualities. I looked through the profile and read it, saw the pictures. Then I found out that you were trans because it was buried in the profile a little bit, and I was kinda like — Oh! Like I said, it was something I had never considered, and then I was thinking to myself, well should I still message her?
–Dustin Hey there Dustin, This means the moment some other guy dresses better, has more connections, a better time piece or an even more outrageous car, she’s going to lose interest in you and chase the shinier objects.
No matter how great you are, your “cock” will never be big enough to hold on to this woman.
Uh, well, honestly it wasn’t something I had put much thought into.