), you don’t have time to waste hanging around in bars or pubs.Let’s face it, very few meaningful relationships have started this way or continue to blossom into the long-term commitment that many singles are looking for.
You’re crafting your ideal romantic relationship and you know from looking inward first that not only are you of this love but that this soulmate is out there.It’s at this point that you can begin to put yourself in social situations and keep yourself open to people that come into your life.Even if you’re an individual with strong faith, great friendships and a healthy appreciation of yourself already, living in this fast-paced modern context can make it hard to find and devote time to socializing.And it gets a little trickier: now that you know what you want in your partner (as you should!Running with the idea that you “already know your soulmate”, take some time to write down all the aspects you’d want in a partner.
This is not a “checklist” of requirements — in fact, it’s quite the opposite.
We crave meaningful relationships that, while few in number, are rich in quality.
We crave those awe-inspiring moments when we realize the person we’re connecting with has shared the same experiences and we live for those instances in which we’re hit with the feeling that a relationship we’re present in has the quality of being “fated”.
From our apps to our favorite stores, to the way our urban cities operate, the message we get is: you can have whatever you want, any time.
But in a world of increasing social connectivity, why is it that we’re all so lonely?
Instead of going on dates that lead nowhere, look inward.