However, if you get this response more often then there is probably something about what you are doing that women are finding repulsive and you need to fix that.) Most of the time when a woman turns you down she will do it in a fairly gentle manner.
I remember a time when I went for a kiss with a girl, and she turned away and said “no, we have the same friends, it will be awkward.” I replied “I don’t care about our friends, I care about you, and it’ll be amazing”.
And of course we kissed each other 😉 Women find this kind of dominance This is the worst.
or perhaps you approach her at a bar but she keeps turning to her friends and ignoring you.
I find it’s tough to turn these situations around, because if she’s rejected you in this way, it means you’re not making her – and when she’s out to have fun, she wants to feel good.
Here’s how it works: escalate, then you’ll end up in the friend zone anyway… I thought about this a lot when I was learning to surf.
There would be waves that were bigger than I felt comfortable with.
Luckily these rude dismissals are rare and your response to them is a no-brainer. Show her – and yourself – that you find her rudeness to be cute and amusing.
It is important not to get upset or to make it look like this has phased you in any way because if there are any other women around that you want to talk to you don’t want them to know that you got all butt hurt because of some rude girl.
So your best option is to smile, tell her “nice to talk to you,” and plan to revisit later.
Go have some fun with your buddies for a bit, develop some social momentum, and then head back to her with some positive energy.
My suggestion when you meet with this kind of rejection is to push on and keep going for it anyways. If you give up at the first sign of resistance, you fail the test.