From an outside perspective, it can seem glaringly obvious what you need to do. For example: One of the first problems we deal with is that our brains will flat out lie to us and we very rarely realize it.
The good news is that once you recognize these stalling tactics for what they are, you can learn to overcome them.
Here are some of the ways you make it so much harder to break up with someone… I’ll try to keep this concise, but I doubt it will wind up that way.
It may be something as significant as a lifestyle change or it may be something shallow as weight gain or age or other physical changes – but it’s Staying in a relationship in order to avoid admitting that you’re not attracted to somebody doesn’t make you a better person, it just prolongs your misery and increases your partner’s when they realize that you’ve been waiting for the end of time to hurry up and arrive.
Similarly, trying to push past deal-breakers or changes in the relationship don’t make you stronger, they make you .
Other times, people try to avoid breaking up with their partners because they worry about what it says about them.
One of the most common examples of this are people who realize they are no longer attracted to their partners.Essentially, I feel trapped in a long distance relationship.Feeling trapped probably means I should end it, but, I’m feeling pretty conflicted about a lot of things.It’s tantamount to admitting that you’re simply amount of bullshit, drama and abuse to prove it.But as the man said: that’s just pride fucking with you.Pride doesn’t help in times like this, it only hurts.