This subtle change portrays the image of a woman who is confident, in control and knows what she wants. It is a huge mistake to create a massive list of turnoffs, deal-breakers and qualities that you are looking for in a partner.Stick to language that shows high levels of confidence whenever possible. While you may think this is a productive way to ward off unwanted suitors, all it does is make men think that you are a negative person and possibly jaded by one too many bad dates.
She's like one of the guys." What guy wouldn't want to bring his girlfriend around his friends and feel totally comfortable?
Being "one of the guys" every now and then doesn't just show that you are fun to hang out with; it also shows that you are not high maintenance, are down to earth and can have fun doing just about anything.
The French are known for being snooty, and yet this guy takes that into consideration and pokes fun at it.
He has a great sense of humor and comes off as goofy but real.
Suppose you don't like football, but like beer and wings.
You don't have to lie and pretend to like football.
Instead, let's change the phrasing above to, "When I'm not out with my friends on a Friday night, I love curling up under the covers and watching a scary movie (any suggestions? Many men and women unintentionally use language that displays a lack of confidence.
)." In this revised statement, I have turned a cliché into a statement that has personality, flirts with the reader, provides bait and discusses the type of movies that I am specifically into. For example, writing that "I really to meet a man who is smart, fun and handsome," doesn't sound terrible, but the word "hope" implies that you are the one chasing and "hoping" things will turn out OK.
One reason is because their profile reads like a boring, dating profile shaped turd. I thought I would throw some keywords that would describe what I like to do.
so let’s start: I’d like first to apologize for the typos I might have… nobody’s perfect) and I’m pretty much new in this country (I’ve been around for 2 years).
The unwanted suitors are going to arrive at your inbox no matter what you do.